“Actions speak louder than words”. And this goes for anything in life, relationships mostly. But that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t matter what you, or your partner says.
Sometimes, by the expressions and words we can figure out with what kind of person we’re dealing with, without the need to wait for any further action.
Communication and trust are the key to every relationship. And bad communication is a really significant sign you shouldn’t ignore. Ever.
You deserve to be with someone who treats you equal as him, who doesn’t yell at you, who doesn’t make you feel bad and who doesn’t find you guilty in every single fight you two have…
Here are a few things that you shouldn’t ever tolerate, especially from your man.
1. “if you loved me, then you would…”
This is a classic school example of conditioning. And true love should be unconditional, right? This can also be considered as a form of emotional manipulation and gameplay of getting you do what he wants.
2. “Why can’t you be more like her”
Comparing isn’t a healthy sign of a relationship, with family, with friends, or with your partner. Comparing means not being satisfied with what you currently have – that’s why you’re constantly looking at other couples and desiring what they have. And if he’s saying this phrase and adding that you should be more like his ex – that’s the final straw and you need to break up immediately.
3. “you’re being overdramatic…again”
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